Examples IRL are full, honest looks at some of our habits and practices that may go unnoticed behind the scenes. These are things we do in our own life that contribute to what you may see on the surface.
Today we look at anger management and being proactive and productive with your emotions.
Congratulations! You set a new personal record! You've deadlifted more weight, banged out more push ups, touched your toes while stretching for the first time, had to use a tighter belt loop, or perhaps finally saw the number you're aiming for on the scale.
That's the million dollar, feeling awesome, high five celebrating question.
Can you stop?
Do you get to go back to eating the foods you actually enjoy, or take part in those activities you had to leave by the wayside to make up for your gym time?
Do you have to keep doing this for ever and ever?
No you don't have to do this for ever and ever, but if you return to doing what you did before reaching those personal records, you will revert to the standards set by your previous life style.
This is the yo yo life cycle of most people's health journey. A bunch of work is put into reaching new goals and building a new you, and many of us fall of a cliff once those goals are reached. Most of us fall of that cliff before even reaching those goals. How many times have you seen or heard of a friend or family member reaching a target weight, falling off some form of wagon and putting on weight again? On the flip side, how often have you seen or heard of a family member reaching their target weight and then not being satisfied and forcing themselves to keep pushing on?
There are countless magazines, health articles, workout tips, life hacks, and products designed to help you ascend to new heights.
How come there aren't any telling you how to stay there?
Here's my theory:
It's because new heights aren't the sign of true progress we believe them to be. New records and personal bests FEEL awesome, and are a testament to how hard and how consistently you've been working. They represent the peak of your achievements and fill the void of satisfaction often missing from the drudgery of day to day life. However, they are often not regularly repeatable. Yes you can work to improve your best, we will address that in a second. What I mean is setting a personal record often requires everything to go right.
Look at Olympic athletes: Michael Phelps set a number of records while competing in the Olympics. How often did he meet or exceed his record in subsequent competitions? Not only that, but he also trained everyday leading up to the Olympics. How often do you think he was recreating record times on a random Wednesday practice?
I believe true progress can be seen by looking at our minimum standard, not our peak best. This is also why day to day progress goes virtually unnoticed, and you never seem to notice feeling better the day of or after. Doing something once or for the first time is not the point you've reached your goal. You've reached your goal when the prospect of NOT doing your new thing becomes more awkward or difficult than how you use to do things.
This means that stepping on the scale and seeing the weight you're aiming for is not when you've reached your goal. You've reached your goal when you don't have to step on the scale to see if you're at your target weight, because it no longer takes conscious effort to be there. You've reached your goal when the way you've chosen to exercise and how you eat become more of a priority than the new number on a scale.
Priorities are dictated by your habits. Not your words. Not your chosen actions. The things in your daily, weekly, monthly, routine that you do without thinking. That's what your true priorities are. Where you are comfortable. What you call normal. In essence, progress means creating a new normal. Creating a new level of standard that you can't live without.
Elevating our minimum level of standard is how you find the ever elusive maintenance stage. Look to mark off standard raising moments and celebrate them just as hard as your peak performance.
Did you touch your toes in your warm up for the first time? Great! Now you're not allowed to be too tight to touch your toes again.
Did you just eat 1,500 calories every day last week and only notice when you backlogged your tracking journal? Great! You no longer need to track your calorie goal every day or week!"
Did you just bang out 5 pushups? Great! Now you're not allowed to bang out less then 5 pushups.
These are just a couple examples. In order to make this kind of goal setting work for you, you must actively look for opportunities to start a new normal, and pay attention to your first times and sudden moments of ease.
There is a lot of debate about whether or not new years resolutions work or are all doomed to fail. The truth is they’re more about how and what resolution you set then the day of the year, just like any other goal setting. So if you are planning on making a resolution or setting goals for 2019 I want to give you some tips to help you smash them!!
Tip One: Action not Outcome
When making a resolution always make it something you have actual control over. You want a resolution that is an action you are taking not an outcome, that at the end of the day, you can't control. For instance don't make the resolution of “I’m going to lose 10lbs,” which is a outcome. Instead say “I am going to go to the gym twice a week.” One is something you can take action on, the other is a hoped for outcome. Don't make the resolution of “get promoted.” Instead go with “I'm going take a leadership role at least once a month.” Do you see the difference? We want to focus on the work required not on the prize. That way we keep it within our control.
Tip Two: Be Honest with Yourself
We all want to be the best versions of ourselves but setting goals too far up in the clouds will only send you hurtling back down to earth at a painful speed. Be honest with yourself, if the goal is too hard look for a smaller step in the same direction. Smoke two packs a day? Going cold turkey is probably not realistic. How about we focus on only 3 cigarettes a day to start, or maybe we only buy one pack a week and when we run out we are out till next week. Your resolution doesn't have to be about making you a perfect person, just a small nudge into improving yourself, your enjoyment, and your quality of life. This is also important when we are talking about time and money, if you don’t have enough don’t make goals that rely on it.
Tip Three: Be Selfish
If your’re going to make real change, at the end of the day, it has to be for you. Say your mom wants you to lose weight, or your partner wants you to give up smoking. Even if you know these things are going to be good for you doing it for other people is doing it for the wrong reason. It's going to be very hard to keep motivated and make the effort day in and day out if you’re only doing it for someone else. At the same time there may be people who love you but are not thrilled with your new goals. You may be trying to improve your nutrition but have a partner who refuses to stop buying junk food. Or you’re trying to stop smoking but all of your friends smoke and just make fun of you for trying to stop, “see how long that'll last.” At the end of the day you can only control yourself and your goals. Know that you are doing whats best for you, stay focused, and let everything else roll off your back.
Tip Four: Add Don't Subtract
When looking to make changes focus on adding things you enjoy to your life rather then taking away stuff that is “bad.” It's going to be a lot easier to go to a dance class you enjoy then to NOT eat ice cream you also enjoy. Now this is hard with something like quit smoking, and I don't recommend replacing a bad habit or “treating” yourself for doing good. But you can focus on what is added to your life by making positive changes. Do you feel better? Maybe put the money you would spend on cigarettes into a piggy bank. The point is to stay focused on the positive, and abundance, not on lack and scarcity.
I’m going to leave you with the story of my 2019 goals and the fact that following my own advice was not easy. I had originally set shiny pretty goals for myself for the coming year. I had things including: Win an open middle weight strongman competition, give a panel talk about fitness at a comic/nerd convention, go and visit friends I haven’t seen in a while. I was really happy with those goals, they were fun, and shiny, and great things to do in the coming year. Then I started to write this blog, I used all of the knowledge and information on goal setting, programming, habit building and human behavior I have learned being a personal trainer. Then I looked back at my own list of happy shiny goals and realized I had not taken any of my own advice, and I felt totally ashamed.
So I went back and started to rewrite my goals. First thing was they broke rule one. They were results not actions. So instead of “win a competition” I put down that I would compete at least twice and get a pro strongman coach to help me. There problem solved…except now it broke rule two, Be Honest. I work all the time and have my own growing business, I am not a hundred percent sure I can do any of that, and finding the time and money is not something that is truly in my control. It was at this point I closed the laptop I was working on, tossed the notebook I was working with in the corner, and walked away in a huff.
It took me a few days of back and forth before I came up with well structured goals: Work on full, comprehensive training programs for myself and track ALL of my food. Write and pitch a panel to at least one convention. Make sure to check in with friends I don’t want to lose touch with at least once a week. All of my goals now fit within the rules, they are all accomplishable if I put the time and effort in. They are also not at all shiny. I have to admit I was a little heart broken at first, instead of a list of great things to look forward to, like a childs list to Santa, all I had was a list of work to do…like a fucking adult. But here’s the thing, it’s not even New Years yet and I’ve already started chipping away at my goals because I can. And while there is no guarantee I will get to the shiny prizes on my original list, I am a hella of a lot closer now that I have a comprehensive list of work I can do right now.
I hope these tips can help you set some New Years resolutions or any goals going forward.
For the month of January we are offering a free week of Superhero Training, which includes one free Field Training class, one free Mission class, one free open gym day, and one free Personal Training session. If you do have health or fitness related resolutions come in and let us help you get there this year. Happy New Years Heroes and lets all have a fabulous 2019
We live in one of the most awkwardly polarizing times in our history.
We live in a time where the number of people eligible for military service is consistently dropping, eventhough our population is growing. The majority of 17 to 25 year olds would not physically qualifie for the military. Not simply for being obese, but for being unable to complete the the fitness test.
Not only that.
But the average varsity high school athlete would also not be able to complete a military fitness test.
At the very same exact moment in history.
We live in a time where the most people ever are reaching the peak levels of human capabilities.
The point is, we have developed a culture that is simultaneously the weakest AND the strongest of all time.
The gap between weak, unhealthy, and out of shape people, and the extremely strong, fast, and resilient people, is growing wider and wider.
It makes looking to athletes for health or fitness inspiration more and more unrealistic, and less relatable.
The asperation of your average 25 year old to look or move like his or her favorite athelete is becoming just as realistic as the 7 year old who thinks they can fly like superman with a towel around their neck.
So I am issuing a challenge to all Everyday Superheroes. Everyone the is trying to better themself, or wanting to improve how much enjoyment they get out of life.
Maybe instead of looking to Olympic athletes or instafamous "fitness" "personalities" in their prime as your asperations, look to the person on your left. Look to the person on your right. Would you out live them if the zombie horde crashed into the room?
Remember you don't have to out run the bear, you have to out run the slowest person in your group. That's who your competition is. That's who you should compare yourself to.
So, think you can outlive the person on your left and the person on your right? Prove it! Know you can. Test your skills and keep them sharp and up to date.
Think not? Fix it! Your competition is doing absolutely nothing right now. If you put in any ounce of work, you win.
I challenge you to be able to walk in most rooms and feel like you could outlive the majority of people in it, should zombies attack.
It has never been easier to defeat the lowest common denominator, and the lowest common denominator has never been so prevalent.
Don't let it be you.
There are three skill sets that you must be proficient in if you plan on fighting the forces of evil. They are equally important and all featured in our Superhero Field Training Class. The skill sets are:
Lets make something abundantly clear. As a superhero, combat is NOT simply punching someone in the face. Anyone can throw a punch. Some people can even throw two! The problem is bad guys punch back and REFUSE to stand still. Moving also happens to be exhausting, and the innocent people you are trying to save tend to get in the way.
In order to successfully navigate a combat encounter, you need to be able to punch the bad guy repeatedly, while not getting punched yourself, AND without accidentally punching any innocents. We train for this by exercising physical problem solving.
Physical problem solving is the ability act quickly and accurately in prescribed pattern.
While helping you to better fend off evildoers, practicing physical problem solving comes with a host of other health benefits:
- Improves cognitive function/memory. (This helps battle aging)
- Improves coordination and balance
- Improves your ability to learn new things
When you encounter a rescue situation, you need to be able to pick something up AND move it to a secondary location without hurting yourself, the thing you are carrying, or any bystander that gets in your way. You need to know ahead of time what your lifting and carrying abilities are prior to engaging a rescue effort.
If you attempt to lift something that you can't, you break.
If you are unable to move with something after picking it up, you and the object die.
If you manage to pick something up, AND move it to a safe location, but violently drop what you are carrying onto the ground......You just succeeded where the evildoer had failed.
Training for rescue encounters requires working strength with as much control over a movement as possible.
There are a bunch of lovely health benefits that come from strength training:
- Muscle growth and/or tone.
- Increased bone density (to battle aging and osteoporosis).
- Promotes sustainable, long term body composition changes (fat loss, and body shape).
Simply put, the quickest way to get from point A to point B is a straight line. In order to succeed in a rooftop scenario, you need to be able to grip, hold, hang, and swing from the tiniest of holds, while also contorting and stabilizing your body into awkard positions, and managing to jump, duck, roll, and dive at the right times to avoid running into things.
A rooftop encounter isn't strictly going to always take place on roofs over the city. Sometimes it's as simple as scaling a fence, or jumping stair case railings for a quicker descent, other times it's climbing up the outside of a balcony to gain an advantage over bosses hideout.
In order to prepare for rooftop scenarios we focus on a mix of calisthenics and plyometric work. As a bonus for training in this manner, you may find some health building advantages, such as:
- Improved ranges of motion/ feeling less stiff.
- Feeling lighter or less strain on your joints
- Better control of your body (battles aging by preventing falls and being able to get up IF you fall.
"Hey! What about all that cardio!? You said that all superhero work requires a strong cardio threshold!"
Yes. As a superhero you will have to face cardio everywhere, all the time. You have to be able to switch from one skill set to another smoothly, and with out too much time to catch your breath in between. This is why our Superhero Field Training class always spends time on each skill set, back to back to back. Your brain may get a rest from boxing during squats, and your legs may get a rest while working pull ups, but switching between all three keeps your heart and lungs from getting too much of a break. That's where the cardio is.
A great benefit of training all three of these skill sets, is that they help each other out. The skills gained in combat training help you make quicker and better judgement calls when on the move over rooftops. The added strength from your rescue training help make doing pushes, and pull ups easier. The added speed and power built from the rooftop training, give your punches and kicks the desired THUMP you are looking for.
If you want to learn more about how to blend to exercise to the needs of your job, a hobby, or your everyday life demands, make sure to check out our ebook “How to Train for The Life You’re Currently Living Part 2: Superhero Special Moves”
I recently came across an article in Mens Health Magazine entitled "What Your Personal Trainer *Really* Thinks About You." You can click on the link to check it out yourself. The goal of the article was to give the reader a reality check as to how their behavior or appearance can be interpreted by a trainer during sessions. That would have been a fun article. Instead, it was a giant list of what is wrong with the gym, fitness, and personal training industry. I am going to cover their list point by point, and explain where they are going wrong, and what we would do instead. For each of the articles points I was angered by one of two things:
Either the bullet point itself
The quote given by one of the interviewed trainers.
1) They Don't Want To Hear About Your Personal Problems.
Ok. Right off the bat, personal problems are easily the number one influencer of decision making and lifestyle. Even if the personal problem is tiny. Even if it doesn't seem like a problem.
Personal problems can be the difference between major fat loss, and never stepping back in the gym. Even a trainer that only cares about a paycheck is going to want to make sure you're feeling good enough to come back. Run in the opposite direction of any trainer that shuts down, ignores, or outright dismisses personal life discussions. They are lazy, and not worth the value you are paying.
2) They Judge You For How Little Progress You've Made.
A trainer judging a client for not making progress is a trainer caught off guard by their client not making progress. That is the trainers fault. It is absolutely 100% up to the client to put in the work required to have progress. However it is the trainers responsibility to make sure any proof of progress in the gym is tracked, and to have an open dialogue about whether or not the program is being followed. If a trainer is ever judging or caught off guard by a client not making results, it's because they failed to maintain any form of communication outside of sessions.
3) They Think You're Obsessed With Social Media.
But for separate unrelated reasons.
First: EVERYONE IS OBSESSED WITH SOCIAL MEDIA.
99% of our outreach is done through social media, and I guarantee you the zumba instrictor they picked a quote from has an instagram account with some to a lot of fun pictures.
Second: The paragraph and quote used to fill out the bullet point has nothing to do with being obsessed with taking perfect photos of yourself or projecting a fake life, and EVERYTHING to do with body comparison issues that have existed since the invention of the magazine cover.
4) They Think You're A Whiny Little Bitch.
Well of course they would if they also don't have time for talking about your personal life. Seriously.
Working out sucks. It's hard and awkward and makes your skin flush and breathing difficult. It can be frustrating to not feel progress (even if progress is being made), or to miss a lift, or to have your body betray you mid workout. AND YOU CAN SHOVE BURPEES STRAIGHT TO HELL! That's even true for people that enjoy working out.
You're telling me that someone who already doesn't want to be doing burpees, shouldn't be allowed to bring up how much they suck? Ignoring the discomfort and pain of working out forces you to associate being healthy as uncomfortable and painful. I say lets complain together. I say lets poke fun at how horrible cardio is while we do it. I say try not laughing while holding a plank. I say run your mouth until it becomes fun, and maybe we can learn to enjoy it..... maybe.
5) They Think You're A Total Slob
Ok this one also has separate unrelated dumb parts.
1) Bright nikeys and fluorescently tailored everything looks great. Means nothing in regards to putting in work and trying to better yourself.
2) Once again this paragraph has nothing to do with the bullet point. Everyone knows to put their weights away when they are done. If a trainer has a client NOT putting away equipment before moving on to the next part of the work out, it means the client is ignoring A LOT more than just gym ettiqute. You (the trainer) are lucky they haven't stopped coming altogether. Pay better attention to your client and this won't be a problem.
6) They Think Your Expectations Are Unrealistic.
Most of the time I find that people either have expectations that are too vauge, or that they aren't actually committed to. It is part of my job as the trainer to help the client zero in what they actually want.
7) They Think You Smell Terrible.
Why is this separate from thinking your a slob? Also, It's a gym. Everything is hot and gross. Even if you come in smelling like a fresh ocean breeze, you will leave smelling like the docks. Also, also, if your trainer ever trades you off to someone else for anything other than scheduling, or leaving the company, they are a shallow, pompous human, and do not care about you or your progress. Fuck Them.
8) They Think It's Embarrassing When You Flirt With Them.
Ok.... this may be a personal distinction so I want to clarify something. There is a HUGE difference between flirting with someone and hitting on someone.
ALL successfully ice breaking small talk is flirting. It is necessary for learning whether or not a trainer and client can have success. 100% of someone's willingness to follow a program, keep showing up, and find worth in being helped, comes from building a positive connection.
9) They Hate When You Make Excuses For Yourself.
This is kinda true. I don't so much hate excuses, as when people sell themselves short.
However, as a trainer, one of my jobs is excuse eliminator. Most people don't even realize how piled down they can get with excuses or victimising themself. It is part of my job to strip away the layers of excuses and help you get to the truth of matters.
Who ends a list with only 9 items? Was item 10 so stupid the editor had to remove it? I realize this is more of a personal issue, but this has to annoy other people Right? An incomplete list feels like peeling the skin off my brain. Perhaps that's just me. After all, their are two types of people:
1) The type that can extract useful information from an incomplete thought.
Here at Everyday Superhero Training we label ourselves as nerd based health and fitness but what does nerd based really mean, what makes someone a nerd. Society tends to define a nerd as someone who likes sci-fi, anime and/or video games. It can even look down on them as having childish hobbies, being socially inept, or being immature. While that some of that, to some level, for some people, is true it does a poor job of defining the nerd-dom as a whole. There are a few characteristics though that make a person a nerd and these are also what we look at and for when we talk about being "nerd based"....as well as sci-fi and video game refrances of course.
The easy way to know if someone is a nerd about something is to ask them a simple question on the subject. If they give you a simple, logical, or even a short but entertaining answer they are not a nerd. They may know alot about the subject, they may truly enjoy the subject, but they are not a NERD on the subject. If however they not only answer your question, but also five questions you didn't ask, three you didn't think of asking, and one you don't actually understand, all without stopping to take a breath or to stop and see if you were still following along or cared, then they are a nerd. This is an extem example obviously but you get the idea. A nerd is someone who is willing to jump in, whole hearted and truly, passionately, love something. It's this enthusiasm which is the biggest give away of someone's nerdiness because they are often so excited and inthraled in a subject that its impossible not to pick up on it.
Some people may view this as a fault (and in some cases it can be) but it is often a great attrabute. While becoming obsessed about something to the point of neglecting family, work, or other obligations is extremely unhealthy a little obsessiveness can be a great thing. Every great inventor or artist was incredibly obsessed. I think the problem these days is we tend to quantify what is worthy of being obsessive about and often those qualifiers are the opposite of what they should be. We hold up being a work-a-holic as a great thing, even if we hate our job. Yet we put down someone who spend their whole weekend at a renisants fair as childish and a wate of time even though that may be much more creatively, emotionally, and mentally fulfilling.
Child like Joy
One of the reasons nerds tend to gravitate towards scifi and fantasy based stories and hobbies more than other subclasses is they are avid users of their imaginations. Surprisingly this is also what makes nerds better at solving real world problems. This is because they don't just look at a problem for what it is and known factors but are actually able to use their imaginations to invite totally new options. Albert Einstein famously said "Imagination is more important than knowledge." Knowledge is great but it is only through imagining the unknown that we can invent, improve, and grown beyond what we are.
Enthusiasm, obsessiveness, and imagination just like a muscle or any other skill can be trained...and you thought I wasn't going to talk about training in this one...that's right you can train to be a better nerd, a bigger nerd, a SUPER NERD!! Like everything else it's about building in the right habits. And as we talk about in part 2 of our ebook series you can also use basic training and habit building to improve upon your general nerdiness or for a specific hobby. If you have a goal like that in mind please let us know and we can help you with a program to get you there.
Quick science lesson:
Glycogen is the primary fuel used for bursts of muscular endurance. Carbohydrates are broken down into glycogen through digestion. Some foods high in carbohydrates break down super fast. Some foods high in carbohydrates break down not as fast. Most foods higher in carbohydrates tend to be mixed with other carbohydrates in an attempt to make them even tastier! This leaves you vulnerable to forgetting to stop eating once you've gotten your fill.
Quick metaphorical question:
What happens to a car when you put too much fuel in the tank?
You know......I'm not actually sure. Let me check google....
According to google, putting too much fuel in your car's tank can "either overwhelm your evaporation system and break something or cause a hazardous leak by the excess pressure in the system. Gas needs extra space to expand in the tank. Extra unneeded gas can damage your car’s vapor collection system, designed to reduce harmful emissions."
That sounds an awful like a bloated, gassy, slow moving, humanoid with a tummy ache.
Hey everybody, guess what happens when you overload on carbohydrates? (Hint: switch out the car parts for body parts in the paragraph above).
When your muscles are fully loaded with glycogen, and you give it MORE carbohydrates to break down into glycogen, you get sick. You feel sluggish. You may sweat a little for no reason.
How do you fix it? Simple. USE YOUR STORED GLYCOGEN! Turn your potential energy into kinetic energy! If you use your stored glycogen then your tank will be empty and you will need to fill it with MORE carbohydrates AND you will feel much better, if not awesome. Sounds like a win in to me!
If you are looking for ways to use up some stored glycogen, check out Part 2 of our Ebook series "How to Train for the Life You're Currently Living." Or you could inquire about our different programs!
Have you ever tried to do push ups, or planks, or squats, in the comfort of your own home? If you've been following our blog, or any other form of our content, you absolutely should have by now. They're free, they're simple, and they're essential to any form of movement outside of exercise and the gym. We often prescribe homework in our clients programming that contain language like "hold a plank during commercials while watching tv....NO FAST FORWARDING OR TIVO MAGIC." Or "Attempt a pull up or two every time you walk through a door frame in your home." Or "Practice your squat by not using your hands to get up and down from the couch." We use this style of language in our programming to focus on habit training, and to help eliminate the illusion of excuses.
So as holistic personal trainers we recognize how important those two facets are to making sustainable changes, and how beneficial it is to know you can in fact exercise anywhere, anytime.
As fully formed adult nerds who built, live, and preach, a lifestyle on the tent pole principle of pursuing enjoyment, excitement, and wonder, we can also tell you how much it blows. It blows hard. On the scale of priority setting and procrastination, doing push ups in the comfort of your own home is the fitness equivalent of doing the laundry. You will feel good after doing it, but getting yourself to do it feels like pulling your teeth. In slow motion. While strapped to your couch.
90% of the success with "DIY" fitness programming we write for people stems from having us there. We are there to check in and remind them to do it. We are there to cheer them on when it gets done. We are there to point out and rejoice in the progress that would otherwise go unnoticed. We provide a sense of proof for accomplishments. We are there to point out each and every time they do something they said they couldn't. We turn can't into won't, and won't into can, and can into will.
Rest assured, at no point does doing push ups on your home carpet become more enjoyable, or easier to make happen. The power of having proof for your effort, and a positive reinforcement for even trying, makes the teeth pulling tolerable. This is the power of the accountabilibuddy.
Just think, if the power of the accountabilibuddy is strong enough to get you to do and see progress from the most painstaking part of self improvement and habit training, imagine what it can do with things you actually enjoy doing!
What the heck is an accountabilibuddy?
It is a person, group of people, place, or environment, that holds you accountable and encourages your pursuit of self improvement. For a lot of people that feel stuck on a hamster wheel, or start and stop diets or programs frequently, not having an accountabilibuddy is most likely why.
Sometimes it doesn't matter if you can ride your bike with no hands. It only matters if someone SEES you riding you bike with no hands. Especially if that someone is a person you respect or desire attention from. That's not to say you should be trying to improve your self for someone else. Because, don't. DON'T DO THAT. Your health and wellbeing should never be codependent on someone else, or worse, someone else's attention.
We are inherently social creatures. Even the most hermit based, prefer my dog to my neighbor type of person, enjoys having their effort noticed. Your accountabilibuddy is a sweet spot of social and variable pressures. Someone waaayyyy better than you or waaayyyy worse than you at something is not relatable, and will either fail to bring out your best, or make your climb seem insurmountable. A place filled with too similar of a struggle is a breeding ground for self loathing and victimising.
Your accountabilibuddy will never be:
- A person or place that claims you embarrass them, or makes you feel embarrassed.
- An environment that is angry when you try something new or different.
- Someone that lets you get away with giving up before you've tried.
- A group that tells you NOT to do something because A) You don't know how it will turn out. Or B) You have to get your shit in order first.
Your accountabilibuddy is going to support you in YOUR decisions, hold you accountable for what you say you want, be unapologetic with excuses, and pick you up when you fall. Because you will fall. Everyone does. You'll forget, or your motivation will waine, or you'll burn out for weeks at a time.
Your accountabilibuddy is a force of positivity. Your defence against the unkown. Your super team in the battle of trying to give a fuck. So when preparing for a quest, always, ALWAYS, grab your accountabilibuddy!
When you prepare for your crime fighting mission, what power do you expect to most rely on? The sheer amount of cardio you have to do will happen regardless. We discussed this in a previous post. But once you swoop into action, would you prefer to save the day as quickly as possible, pick something up and move it to safety, or deduce how the crime took place, so you can stop it from happening again.
Basically, would you prefer to have super speed, super strength, or super deduction?
All three skills, speed, strength, and deduction, are needed in some capacity for any hero. The super power describes which of the three you prefer to rely on, enjoy using the most, or use by default without thinking.
You come to a stone wall. How do you get to the other side? Do you smash a whole and walkthrough? Do you run up and jump it? Do you look for a door?
Your instinctive answer is your super power. The primary gift you should look to hone and keep sharp in case of use. The other two skills are viable options you should always mix in, just in case. It would suck to rely solely on finding a door, only to determine there isn't one.
Your super power is the anchor to your training. It's what you should resort to when you fall of the wagon, when you're feeling unmotivated, and what you measure and test your progress against.
We are going to analyze and break down what parameters will be most useful for your desired super power.
You are going to pick up anything that isn't strapped down. You are the one your friends call when they are moving. Some asshat parked their car in your spot? Move it. Locked yourself out of the house? Knock down the door. You prefer to wield giant hammers, clubs, axes, or two handed swords, swing them once, and go home.
The first rule of strength training, is that you don't get strong by being strong. You don't improve strength by trying to lift 500lbs that won't budge. You don't improve strength by always and only lifting your max. You can realistically hit your max lift once. It takes so much of your energy to do so however, that you can't do it a second time.
To improve your strength you want to work in full body compound movements. You want weights heavy enough to tax your whole body, while at the same time being light enough that after you have set them down, you can still pick them up again. And again. And again. And again. And again. And then maybe rest.
Lines are the worst. Walking in a pack downtown makes you want to pull the skin off your face. You can totally run faster than rush hour traffic. The fastest way to get from point A to point B is a straight line, walls and private property be damned. Your jab is your favorite weapon and your wit is quick.
Speed is most effective in short bursts. The longer you spend doing something, the more energy it takes to keep doing it, the more you slow down. So when training for speed really you want to focus on two things. 1) Your top speed being higher. 2) The amount of time you can maintain your top speed, or close to it.
Plyometrics are your best friend. Sprints, jumps, and other short bursts of power are going get you going faster, sooner.
You know who the killer is within the first act of the episode. Crosswords and sudoku are your jam. Getting a question to something you don't know the answer to is both exciting AND an excuse to jump down a rabbit hole of research and thought experiments. Your quick thinking prevents fights from escalating in the first place. Your understanding of physics and obsessive nature help you excel at things like climbing, darts, and billiards.
Just like strength and speed, your ability to deduce information from observing the world around you is physically trainable. To make it a superpower you have to be able to rely on it when you don't have time to think. When panic sets in and the chips are on the table, being able to tell whether someone is left or right handed doesn't matter unless you can apply the knowledge at full speed.
To train your deduction you want stimulate your mind in between spikes of adrenaline. Playing memory in between a tabata, or tick tack toe in between heavy lifts can scratch this itch.
Which of these powers do you feel calling to you? Which of the descriptions best describes how you see or would prefer to interact with the world? Lets discuss! If you want to learn more about how to exercise for character type, make sure to check out "How to Train for the Life You're Currently Living Part 2: Superhero Special Moves," on the products page!
As superheroes we know the importance of being able to lift tons of weight, hone our powers, withstand ungodly amounts of pressure, posses a relentless motor for getting through any situation, and the greek god like body that can come from training all those things. You know what no one ever seems to talk about? The amount of cardio required in superhero work. I'm not talking about training even, just the day to day job requirement that is high levels of cardio.
You spend most of your time running to or away from things. Even if you're not dealing with a direct conflict, you're still walking during your patrol of the neighborhood. Quick question, how much energy do you think you would have left for bad guy shenanigans after forty five minutes of walking around the block, climbing buildings, and jumping from roof top to roof top? I'd say, rounded to the nearest whole number, zero.
The trouble is, training cardio sucks. It is absolutely the worst. It is painful, and gross, and a great way for seeing the inside of your stomach. But if you plan on saving the day, you have to include it somewhere in your program. All the greats do. Even the strongest most super powered hero has to work on cardio.
The Flash has super speed powered by the speed force, equally enhanced reaction and time perception, and has enough power in his sprint to bend, break, and travel through time. And he still had to practice running in order to do so because, cardio.
Superman is a Kryptonian alien with more powers, abilities and might, than most other teams of heroes put together. His power is fueled by our solar system's yellow sun. He has had most, if not all of his powers by puberty, and yet even he has to find time to huff and puff and hopefully not blow a house down because of accidental super breath.
Batman has every bat themed gadget you can think of, including an armored fleet of vehicles, and created a fighting system that requires one timely strike at a time to help him avoid as much cardio as possible. Yet he runs, swims, climbs, and of course conditions with sparring, you know, just incase.
Maybe, just maybe, it could be helpful to do a burpee, or run a sprint.
Somewhere The Joker is laughing.
When embarking on the heroes journey, you may find that navigating your user interface for your skills and attributes is rather clunky and not very intuitive. When possible, using a tutorial with the help of a guide can greatly improve your chances of success. At the very least learning how to read and understand your skill and attribute tree can set you in the right direction. So what are skills and attributes, and why do they even matter?
What are Attributes?
Attributes are your basic physical traits. Strength, speed, endurance, agility. Generally speaking when you are working out, you are attempting to improve one, some, or all of these attributes. They are the limits of what you can pick up or carry, how quickly you can get what you're carrying from point A to point B, how far a distance you can carry the object between point A and point B, and how many movements or changes in direction you can make while moving from point A to point B.
Most of the time if you find yourself using your attributes, the quest in question requires a mix of some to all of them. It is very rare that your quest simply requires you to pick something up and replace the object in the same spot you found it. However! When working to level up your attributes, you are best served by focusing on one attribute at a time. Whether it be through a full cycle of training that you spend on one specific attribute, or splitting up your workouts through out the week to focus on separate attributes.
The reason you want to focus on one attribute at a time is because they are applied generically to a variety of events, and trying to predetermine which events you're going to encounter is highly improbable. By linearly focusing on one attribute at a time, you can clearly see your progress as you level up, and have a better estimate of whether or not your current level can successfully interact with a situation.
What are Skills
Skills are abilities that utilize your attributes. They are movement patterns, ranges of motion, or tool use. We use the word tool loosely. It doesn't have to be a crescent wrench or help you build something. It can be a toy, game, a weapon, or any other object that requires your interaction to be used. Your skills are the creative outlets for using your attributes. Much like with your attributes, you're best served by focusing on one skill at a time.
Not so much for keeping track of the linear progression, but more because of the time consumption required for success. There is a direct correlation between the amount of time spent practicing a skill, and the point at which it becomes an unconscious response. Leveling up a skill starts at the first point of it becoming unconscious. If you have to think about executing a skill before doing so, you have already been slayed.
By focusing on one skill at a time you can minimise the amount of time required to reach an unconscious response. You can further improve the time it takes to reach an unconscious response by practicing it everyday. While a given skill may get rusty if unused for too long, having it logged into your subconscious makes it much easier to pick up again when you need it. This allows you to focus on leveling up a new skill while merely maintaining your already developed ones. Maintaining your leveled skills simply requires applying their unconscious responses in your quests. In other words, keep going on quests.
Where do they fit into your heroes journey?
While your skills are purely technical, and until used, mostly theoretical, it is your attributes that dictate how long and with how much force you can execute them. You can't really succeed in any quest unless you build and maintain both of them. A skill without honed attributes will be weak, inefficient, lower your chances of survival, and eliminate any chances of escaping. Highly leveled attributes may allow you to survive longer, but leave you unable to complete any tasks.
The balance of trying to level up a skill and your attributes can seem daunting, but it doesn't have to be. The simplest structure is to focus on one skill and one attribute at a time and separately from each other. Your skill would be practiced every day, while fresh, and separate from or at least before your attribute workout. Your attribute workout would then focus on improving EITHER strength, speed, endurance, or agility. This allows you time to recover physically from each workout AND accurately track your attributes progress. If you don't have enough time or energy to switch attributes every day, you can instead focus on one attribute each time you work out and switch them out every month or so.
The relationship between your attributes and skills is built and maintained for the long haul. There is no point where you wake up and no longer have to work to at least keep your attributes at their current level. This is the biggest fallacy of working out. The idea that you've reached your goal, so you can stop. Or that you're done working out because you are already in shape. The most painful example is believing that you will pause your real life until you level up your skills and attributes to an acceptable level before returning to your previous ways.
The most crucial aspect of the heroes journey is adapting the lessons you learn to create a new you, understanding, and way of life. Peter Quill (Star Lord, and leader of the Guardians of the Galaxy) was once nothing more than a lazy dimwitted local government employee, that sucked at shining shoes. He altered his beer intake, found his way to the gym after failing the police fitness test, and built in the day to day discipline required to improve his attributes to the level of a kick ass space pirate. He did so all AFTER turning 34. Peter didn't become a kick ass space pirate and then return to over consuming beer and getting high on shoe polish. He continued to maintain the required skills and attributes his new life required of him. Unfortunately for the fate of half the universe, he never really grew out of his over emotional dim wittedness.
As a personal trainer I wear many hats. I'm part teacher, part best friend, part therapist. But do you know what I'm not? I'm not your lover. That means you can't cheat on me. You can't get away with sneaking around, because your faithfulness isn't to me, it's to your program, or your desire to see results. I'm not the one getting hurt, you are.
It happens a lot, I give homework that doesn't get followed, diets that get ignored, and workouts that require pity rest for your suffering. You skip class and sessions completely with no intention on keeping up with the program, or trying to fit your own work in.
To some degree it makes total sense. The process of getting healthier and changing your habits is hard and difficult and uncomfortable, of course there will be days you don't want to do it. However, the part of this that boggles my mind, is when you turn around and apologize to me. You owe me nothing. Our arrangement is simple. You pay me and in return I provide you with the science, programing, tools, and guidance necessary to make the changes you desire. Whether or not you follow through on using those tools is not part of the agreement.
I did my part. I'm not the person you are cheating on. You are not trying to better yourself to please me. You are not paying attention to your energy levels to impress me. You are not tracking your home workouts to make me proud. You're doing this because you woke up one day and said you wanted to do more. You wanted to be better. You are the only person who feels the effects of your cheating.
The person you need to apologize to is yourself. The trust you broke was your own. I'm not telling you this to make you feel guilty or depressed or make you think you can never change. Everybody has a bad week once in a while. We are all a work in progress and constantly evolving. We are not going to have a perfect day all the time. That does not mean we stop trying.
Just because we went over our calories at lunch doesn't make dinner a free for all. Just because we missed morning cardio twice this week doesn't mean we stop trying to get up early and do it. If anything these are the times we buckle down harder because this is where the real change is going to start to happen. There is no wagon to fall off. Your day will go on with or with out your permission. If you forgot, or didn't make time, or over slept, or don't think taking care of yourself is a priority today, tough. Own it, suck it up, and kick some ass. I'm telling you this so you realize it's about you and only you. Show up and be there for yourself, don't cheat on yourself, you deserve better then that.
Why are we so quick to judge people as immature? Now we're not talking about people who don't pay their rent on time, or forget to pick up their friend from the airport, or crack a cruel or dirty joke at work to a customer. That is being immature. But for some reason we have this idea that to be an adult means you have to be serious one hundred percent of the time. That there is no room for “wasted time.” There are three parts of our childhood specifically, that get squashed out of us by the time we are working full time and maybe have kids of our own. They are naps, curiosity, and play time.
The importance of naps:
As a child nap time was a regularly scheduled part of the day. As a toddler at daycare, at preschool, at kindergarten, there was a time after a snack or lunch, where everyone lied down, the lights got turned out, and for about 30 minutes to a hour everyone slept.
Lets be honest, as kids we fought nap time tooth and nail, and the adults really just wanted some piece and quiet. Kids also had “grumpy naps.” Times during the day where everyone in the room but you could tell you were exhausted and needed to lie down for 20 minutes, because of how much of a whiny bitch you were being.
Nowadays we have research that shows naps to be an essential part of the learning process. We know that as the brain becomes more and more exhausted, a quick nap can help not only restore your energy, but is also a tool for making sense of all the crap that has become jumbled in your brain. We also know that kids have high brain/neural plasticity which is part of what allows them to learn and adapt at an extremely high rate. Making sure a kid naps is a great way to help them take advantage of it.
As an adult, naps are considered lazy. If you have time to lay around at 2pm on a Thursday, you're slacking off and not working hard enough. You know what doesn't change as an adult? Getting extra grump, short, heavy eyed, and easily frustrated around 2pm or 3pm. A bad diet tends to make it worse. You can lessen the effect by paying attention to what or how you eat, but it still happens in some capacity every day.
The fact is a 20 to 60 minute nap still has a big effect on your mood, alertness, concentration, and coordination. It helps reset your brain from the workload you've already dealt with. If you find yourself stuck on a problem, or extra snippy with people in the mid afternoon, a quick nap can do wonders to help. In order for that to happen, you must have given your brain or body a workload to respond to. If you find yourself taking a nap after a morning filled with nothing but sitting, laying, pooping, and eating, you will wake up extra grumpy and disoriented. THAT would be considered lazy.
That quick power nap can also help you from physical workload. Your bodies repair systems go into overdrive and do their best work while you are asleep. If you tend to be active or workout in the morning, a nap can help restore your expended energy. Any skill work you are practicing is improved while you are unconscious, not during the time spent executing the skill.
The power of curiosity
Our minds are naturally inquisitive. There is a strong pull to figure out why something doesn't make sense, or how something worked. Being curious has nothing to do with your ability to absorb or understand information. It is simply the spark that powers you to try. It's how we learn of our own free will.
As children we understand nothing. This gives us a sense of wonder and magic for the world. We are more open to new information and have zero confirmation bias. We know that asking questions plays a strong roll in learning and allowing a child to be inquisitive helps them develop critical thinking skills. We want them to develop the ability to solve problems on their own, and form educated opinions. We want them to take advantage of their higher neural plasticity and take in as much of the world around them as possible.
As adults we build a fallacy around the belief that we know how the world works. The more we believe we understand the less time we are willing to spend asking questions. Those who are inquisitive as adults are lambasted for being ignorant or stupid or immature. As a result, we stop learning. The spark and wonder within the world dims and the desire to make sense of things goes unfulfilled. What doesn't change as an adult, is the world being a crazy wondrous place filled with infinite possibilities to explore. If curiosity is the how we learn, and you stop letting yourself being curious, then you stop learning. You rob yourself of the exhilaration of finding something new.
If you look at the great minds of our generations, it's not just that they magically knew more or memorized more stats and facts better than others. No what made the great minds great, was constantly exploring and searching for answers. Always seeking out new puzzles, finding new mysteries, trying to explain the unexplained, and feeding their curiosity.
The power of play time
Play time is the most exciting and exhilarating part of your day as a child. It's 100% enthusiasm, unbridled joy, and free from worry or consequence. There may be rules to follow, or winners or losers, but your imagination gets to run free. Your first real concepts of right and wrong and risk reward come from playing with others. The ability to create is built through allowing your imagination to physically manifest.
Even if you have hobbies as an adult, or activities that you enjoy doing, showing pure enthusiasm for it is considered embarrassing. But for most of us, there isn't even time for enjoying things that have zero to do with your to do list. We remove joy and spontaneity from anything deemed worthy of doing. Everything is serious, your exercise, your fandom (sport, comic book, or sci-fi/fantasy), your pick up basketball game, or your role playing game. These are all outlets for imagination, escapism from the day to day, and fun for fun's sake, and yet how often do you end up filling the time with arguments, or walking away frustrated?
We as nerds tend to be the worst with this. We have built and grown into what we enjoyed as kids, and are fortunate to include and pay attention to our interests. But the joy associated with letting our imagination run free has been replaced by rigid schedules or cutting down of others for not being true fans.
We know how crucial the power of a child's imagination is for developing aptitude during a phase of their life when their neural plasticity is at its highest. We also make ourselves feel guilty if we don't take our hobbies serious enough. How many of us lose a little self esteem because we start writing a novel but don't finish. Or let the weeds over take the garden because we lost interest and want to learn the piano now instead. We look at hobbies cast aside a failures instead of what they truly are, playtime that has run it's course.
The emphasis of naps, curiosity, and play time is made when we are children, and our neural plasticity is highest. We focus on these points because they are considered essential for our development. Our mistake is thinking that at any point we have stopped developing. Sure our neural plasticity is higher as kids, but remember everything can be trained, and everything can be worked on. How much of having a harder time learning a foreign language is because your brain got too full, versus you stopped practicing how to learn new things? How can you expect to be able to enjoy life, when you have no practice in feeling joy?
The world will never run out of ways to inspire you or cause you wonder. You didn't lose your “child like enthusiasm,” you lost the ability to be or feel enthusiastic at all.
I love my couch. It is soft, and comfy, and just the right shape for both my dogs and my cat to snuggle over me like an extra blanket. After a long day of kicking ass with positivity, collapsing into my fort made of adorableness brings me a loving sense of euphoria. Every time I'm pretty sure I will never get back up, but that only feels so comfortable because I've spent the rest of my day being uncomfortable. It's the contrast of putting my body through stress and getting it sore that made the comfort so possible.
“But I don't want to be sore, or uncomfortable. It sounds painful, and I'd rather not be in pain.” I agree. I don't want to be in pain either. In fact our e-book “The Superhero Blueprint” discusses working to not have chronic pain and inflammation. However! I also say tough. Too bad. Tough noogies. Because while chronic pain can and should be thwarted, pain as a whole is going to happen whether you like it or not, and in some cases may be necessary.
In a mirrored universe where instead of kicking ass with positivity I spend most days on that same couch covered in the happiness that is puppies and kittens, it will feel decent for the first couple hours. After that my eating will be out of boredom rather than hunger. My food will taste bland and require oodles of extra salt, deep frying, and sugar in order to garner any kind of reaction. I will become tired from all my doing nothing. My butt will fall asleep, as will my hamstrings, and my ankles, which I won't notice until I try to stand up to use the bathroom. When I do stand up, or possibly even while I'm still stuck in the couch depending on how long it's been, I will notice that my joints are stiff, stuck, and fucking SORE.
No matter what you do, at some point, soreness will set in. That uncomfortable pain you want to avoid will exist either way. You can either put it to work or let it keep you from working. You can either use it to better yourself and improve your life, or it can take over your life and keep you from living.
What? Why? How?
Science SAID so that's how. Hahahaha puns.
Your body is a crazy, amazing, efficient machine. It is way smarter than you. It has to be in order to survive all the stupid shit we put it through. Your body has mechanisms built in that solely exist to fix stuff you fuck up. For example: there is a part of your sleep cycle that's sole job is to make sense of the things you sucked at today, and make you better at them. This is why you can end yo-yo practice frustrated and confused, and comeback the next day and kick ass at it. While you were unconscious your body found the missing links of yo yo stardom and put them together.
Because of systems like this, your body readily adapts to the stimulus you give it.
This is known as the SAID (Specific Adaption to Imposed Demands) principle. Your body will adapt to its demands whether you choose to give it any or not. The way you sit, the way you stand, the way you walk, all play a part in how you body adapts. So if you spend most of your time in a fixed position at work, either standing or sitting, and spend most of your time in your favorite recliner at home, your body will adapt to those positions. When you move it will hurt because your body will have no idea how. The muscles in your legs, core, and back, that are supported by your chair, will have been turned off.
If you give your body demands to adapt to, it will. Putting demand on your body is by nature uncomfortable. In order for it to acknowledge and change from the provided stimulus, it must be more or different from what your body is used to. Part of the being uncomfortable will come in the form of being sore. So one way or another you will be uncomfortable and sore. The question is, is your body sore from adapting to your chair or is your body sore from adapting to exciting stimulus?
The choice is yours.
Today I want to do a little compare and contrast between athletic, aesthetic, and healthy. I want to do this because these things don't necessary go hand in hand, while some people may have all of the above it is just as easy to only be one of these things.
So lets start with athletic. What is an athletic body? Very simple it is a body that is trained and honed to do a specific task, often over and over, to a very high standard. That could be running, lifting large amount of weight, hitting a ball or even hitting another person. Athletic is probably the most specific goal you can have, not best but most specific. If you are training as an athlete, pro or for hobby, you are focused on getting your body to do one thing and getting it to do that thing better and better and better. Now getting your body to be a well oiled performance machine does not actually hit on any aesthetic of health goals. While sometime these things can go hand and hand, think Tom Brady or Venus Williams, having an aesthetically pleasing body does doesn't not come along with athletic training or enhance it, unless your sport is bodybuilding but that's another story. Prince Fielder, Dontari Poe, Shaquille O'Neal and Eddie Hall all have body's we would not think of as “Athletic.” In fact for most of us if we saw these men walking around in there street clothes we may even think, damn that guy need to hit the gym or go on a diet. But these man all have an athletic body type because they are all PRO ATHLETS. That what that means, they get their body to do something amazing and don't give a damn if it is healthy or if they look good. For all athletes their training, their diet, even how they recover is solely focused on their sport. This doesn't mean you can't have a sports hobby and be healthy at the same time or not to look to our athlete for inspiration, just know when you read about The Rocks 5,000 plus calorie diet that you are keeping his goals in mind so you have a clear perspective.
Ok Next is Aesthetic, lets face it this is what we all want and what drives most of us to the gym in the first place. The funny thing is how many people don't want to come right out and say it. I have so many clients that come to me saying they just want to be healthy but then only want to talk about losing weight. Or that they just want to feel good about themselves when secretly they are hoping I can give them visible abs. Now again you can be healthy and look great, and in fact I find that the mirror can be a good motivator for getting people to put in the work, nothing feels better then seeing your body take shape and lovely how you look. However there can be an ugly side to the aesthetic goal as well. Having an Instagram worth body does mean defecto health. There are many programs and system out there that will get you the aesthetically pleasing figure you want but it will come at the expense of your health.
Lastly we have health. This is always our many goal for our clients and ourselves but what does it really mean? For us health means not being in pain, being able to move comfortably, having sustained energy throughout your day, and having the strength to lift and carry things as your life demands, i.e. groceries or kids. In short health means being able to enjoy your life because your body is allowing you to live comfortably. Here is the kicker, you don't have to live like and athlete or look like an Instagram model to be healthy. You can be plump and soft, or tall and all sinew and still be super healthy. Health is about how you feel, how well this amazing machine we call a body is running then how you look.
So why am I going over these points? Whats the point? Am I just trying to make you feel bad for lusting over that six pack? Not at all, in fact if you want a six pack I can help you get that six pack. I just want you to see that difference between these things so we can have some clarity when setting your goals and making a plan to get there. Like I said at the start you can be some of or all of these things but be honest with yourself about what your true goals are and what you are willing to sacrifice to get there. We have about 3 month tell summer which means for most of us aesthetic is going to be our main goal, we want to rock that bikini. Now you can only focus on that, or you can focus on being healthy too. We can help you dial in a proper healthy nutrition plan and give you exercise that while helping your body to move more and better will also help you look your best. The same goes for athletic, I love programming for sport preformace it is super fun. But we are going to focus on not just making you the best but mobility and recovery work that make you a healthy athlete will a long career. Now as I said there are other ways, there are programs and shortcuts out there that will get you antithetic and aesthetic goals but at no concern for your health or even the stability or the result. If your goal is a six pack or run a 4 minute and that's all you care about damn the consequences will then more power too you my brother but we are not the right trainers for you. However if you have those same goals but want to take the time and discipline to do it in a healthy way, please give us a call, we can help with that.
Some of the most frustrating things I hear on an almost weekly basis are things like:
“Your class looks fun. Once I'm in better shape I'm going to come check it out.”
“I'm just not in good enough shape right now to exercise”
“I’m too old, I can’t exercise anymore.”
“I need to lose some weight so I can feel confident hiring a trainer.”
It’s a paradox right?
You can’t workout because you’re out of shape, but need to workout in order to get in shape.
This is how many people see fitness, and I can see why. If you go into your average commercial gym, or pick up any fitness magazine or diet book, all you see is people ALREADY in shape and fit. Ever try one of the workouts in a magazine? Yeah those are for people ALL READY in shape and fit too.
How can you be expected to do jumping lunge skater hops and weighted pull ups, if you can't jump, lunge or do regular pull ups? It's like the entire industry is a cruel joke of already fit people needing newer more complicated ways of getting extra fit.
How are you supposed to break free of this paradox? Where do you start?
I'm going to tell you a secret:
If you want to look like that mega babe busting out deadlifts at your local gym, there is one thing you'll need to do......
There's no short cut, no magic trick, and most defiantly no prerequisites, you just have to start. It won’t look as pretty or be as much weight, and you will be uncomfortable, both physically and mentally. But the only way to get there is by doing it.
A lot of people try to escape this paradox with diet first. They feel they can do it on their own, and there’s no need to go to the gym yet. Once they diet off enough weight to look good in their gym clothes, they can hit the squat rack!
However, diets are generally temporary. They restrict food in a manner that is not sustainable for once you do hit the gym, and tend to build an ugly relationship with food.
Plus diets can be extremely difficult to stick to if you live with family members or roommates that are not on diets. Do you really want to cook two different dinners every night or buy special food just for you? Can you really control yourself after a rough day when you come home and see your kids mega sugary cereal just waiting for you to eat it? Plus every time you crash diet and fail you put yourself in a worst place both physically and mentally for trying again.
That's why we like to start people off with simply moving more. All you need is 15-30 minutes a day to yourself. You can start today, without having to buy anything, or go anywhere specific. You can walk around your neighborhood. You can lay on the ground and get back up over and over and over again. If that sounds boring or doesn’t leave you exhausted after a couple weeks, go to your local pool or take a class (trying a class is normally free) even if it seems above your skill level (any coach worth his salt can scale a class so anyone can participate). The more specific your goal, the more specific type of movement you are going to need.
It can seem hard to carve out the extra time at first. Jobs and family seem to fill up every extra minute.
The simplest way to find time is to incorporate it within or around a regular commute. On the way or before work or school, or after work or school before you get home. This also leaves you natural rest days if needed on the weekends or days off.
That little bit of time quickly leads to being more present and productive at work, having more energy and focused attention to give to your kids and/or partner, and can also lead to cravings for better foods. While exercise can suck, be uncomfortable, and totally miserable when you start out. It has quick benefits of boasting endorphins, regulating other hormones, and decreasing stress levels.
If you find yourself stuck in the fitness paradox, the only error is to wait. If you have to choose between something you can do tomorrow and something you can do now, the way to escape the paradox is to do something now.
And right now you can sign up for our class or a free session!